
Yup, at 47 I got a tattoo on my lower back! I still cannot believe it as I always said "I will never get a tattoo!" I just had this need to get one as a tribute to my Dad and brother-in-law. The irony is my Dad was so not a fan of tattoo's. My sister got one when she was 35 and he always gave her grief about it! (Sorry Daddy...It was just something I had to do!)
The experience was actually pretty exciting...the tattoo salon was in the Mirage Hotel. I figured that the Mirage wasn't going to have a fly-by-night tattoo parlor in their hotel and I was right. The owner, Mario Barth, has another one in Mandalay Bay Hotel and Casino and both came highly recommended. We went to the salon in the afternoon and I spoke to the artist who would be doing it and I described to him what I wanted. He told us to go to our show, CHER, and come back after the show and he'd show us his design. Steve got a modified design of the same tattoo, only his doesn't have wings and his says "Jim" instead of "Daddy".
When we got back to the Mirage, it was about 10 p.m. and the whole atmosphere of "King Ink" was changed into a club. Steve and I went into a private room with "Big Tony" (who was one big Teddy Bear!). He was so moved by the events that led me to him and the reason for my getting the tattoo. Anyway, it was a little painful BUT I kept thinking about my Dad and BIL, Jimmy and it was worth the uncomfortableness, believe me! This was also Steve's first (and only) tattoo and he told me it didn't hurt at all...I was just a baby!
My sister, my girls and my sisters children are coming to FL this weekend for my fathers Memorial Service on Monday. It will be another couple of rough days for our family but at least when it is over, we can all truly start the healing process. Today was my sisters birthday and I just wanted to be with her and give her a hug. It will have to wait until tomorrow though. I so want to take her pain away...she is my baby sister, and I wish I could help her more. She is staying until Wednesday as my niece still has school. I will see her again on 6/14 as she is flying down here so that Steve can take us to Charleston to see where the accident happened and we'd also like to thank the Dentist whose office is right there and who was the first on the scene. He tried to help my Dad and BIL and we just want to thank him.
On the Band front: Just when I think I don't have one and am counting the hours until my next fill a week from Monday, I get "backed up" at lunch and full on stuck at dinner! Me thinks bread is no longer welcome! I took one bite of Panara Breads new lobster sammy and WHAM! Tonight, I didn't feel like cooking so Steve made me a hot dog. Same thing but worse! Both times bread was present so no more bread! At least not the soft kind.
I have lost 6+ lbs since my first fill on 5/3 and I am hoping that now that my life will be getting a little more normal again (if thats even possible) I will be able to get back on track with my exercising and healthy eating.
I really have been negelectful in my commenting on others blogs but I swear, I have been trying my best to keep up with Google Reader. I miss you all sooooo much...please know that!


28 comments:
Jacquie, I literally think of you everyday! My heart goes out to you and your family. My dad is currently at Ride to the Wall in D.C. He rides all the way across country and back each year. Your tattoo is a beautiful tribute to your dad. I can't wait to meet you in Chicago! Hang in there and please know that we all love you :)
Jacquie, you've been in my thoughts so much lately. I'm glad you've had time with your family. The tattoo is a lovely tribute to your dad and brother-in-law. xoxo
What a lovely tribute for your father and BIL. Be well.
I love love the tattoo and it is an amazing tribute to both your father and brother in law. I am always thinking of you... God bless you and your family!
Love the design, really captures your daddy and his love.. You are brave.. I was thinking of a tiny little tinkerbell tat but have chickened out several times.. It's the needles I tell you..
Good for you on the WL front.. and I know what you mean about eating some breads.. hang in there and make sure you let us know how that fill goes!!!
What a beautiful and fitting tribute to your Dad & BIL! Thinking of you ((hugs))
Your tattoo is absolutely gorgeous. What a lovely tribute!
Jacquie - What a great tattoo,it is fitting. It sounds like you had a nice trip - I hope you were able to relax a little.
You're in my thoughts...
We miss you terribly...so glad you're getting through these weeks...such a strong woman you are.
Nice "tat" and wonderful tribute.
It's so good to hear your voice (so to speak).
Jason and I were just talking about you tonight (we were talking about a Las Vegas vacation) and I'm glad to hear you are back from your trip. What a wonderful tribute to your father and BIL's memory. I've missed having you around...I'm glad to know you have restriction...I've not been able to eat bread for the last month. I don't have full restriction (it seems to come and go!) but bread is just NO a part of my diet anymore.
Nice to hear from you, Jacquie!
What a wonderful thing for you to do for your loved ones. I wish we would have been in Vegas at the same time so we could have met. Maybe next time?
Jacquie, I hope that you can feel the love that this blog community has for you. You have been in my thoughts and prayers so much! I think your Dad would be fine with the tattoo and I think it's a beautiful and fitting tribute to him and your brother-in-law. Hang in there, we love you!
love the tat what a lovely thing to do in memory... I have been thinking about you lots.. Miss you on the blogs too xxx
Jacquie,
I have been thinking on and off of you since this awful tragedy - and I have to say - what a beautiful tribute. It brought tears to my eyes. Seriously. I hope you're getting through this, girl. My heart is with you. xx
Glad to see you that you did this wonderful thing for yourself and for your family in remembrance... I am so sorry for this pain for you and everyone around you.
On a lighter note: I am considering a low back tatoo also! I went to a tatoo place where my husband got a tatoo not too long ago and the artist is drawing it up. I know it is very common, but since my first name means butterfly, that is what I'm thinking of getting... not sure if I'm going through with it or not.
Congrats and enjoy your new body art!!
Oh, and PS: don't worry about not commenting, we all have times when we're more around or less so. Good to see you on the blogosphere and taking care of yourself and your family is what is important now.
That is such a nice tribute to your Dad and BIL! I'm glad you had a good trip and are back safe.
It will be good for you to begin the healing process after this last service. Give your sister a big hug from all of us. I am protective of my baby sister, too. But know that you just being there for her is such a help.
Love you, hun. I'm always thinking of you and praying for you & your family.
I think your dad would smile for this tattoo. What a loving memory!
You have a lot of support and love in blogland who all want the best for you. Hugs to you and your family, and know we do care!
I too think of you all everyday. What a lovely tattoo. I am not a tattoo fan but would so think of getting one in the same circumstances. The guy who did it sounded lovely!!! I will be thinking of you all again this weekend...take care and I miss you too
Great Tattoo Jacquie......
Great design and a wonderful tribute. I love tattoos but mainly when they are there for a reason, something that means something special.
Sending you hugs and thoughts over the next few weeks, which hopefully will bring some peace (if that is possible)
I love the tat. I think of you lots and your always in my prayers. I will be thinking of you and your family for the Memorial service Monday. Also great job on the 6 pounds.
So glad you had a good trip. I love the tattoo and think its a beautiful tribute. (careful because they are quite addictive)
I think of you and yours often and it always makes me feel so grateful for every day. Sending you much love this week and always x
Thank you for the comment on my blog...
I love your tat and I am also writing to you to send my love... all the way from Australia...
Love your tattoo. I know how painful losing my mother was so I can only imagine how painful losing 2 people you love must be. I'm so sorry you and your family have to go through this.
I love the tattoo! What a wonderful idea! <3
My sister and I got our tattoos for my grandfather who passed. Our firsts also. I think its beautiful. There really are no words. I hope you and your sister find some comfort this week.
I love the tat and I'm so glad you went to Vegas. I bet your dad would have done the same thing!
I've been thinking of you and missing your comments and posts. Come back soon!
Oh Jacquie, I love the tattoo, it is beautiful and truly an amazing way to remember your dad and BIL.
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